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Edmund ("Eddie”, “Ed”) Joseph Grammer, age 69, of Woburn, formerly of Weymouth, Roslindale and Jamaica Plain, passed away unexpectedly on August 16, 2026. Eddie was a remarkable man who lived his faith through actions. He was deeply caring, dependable, selfless, and made an everlasting impact on everyone who knew him.
Born in Boston on April 28, 1957, to Virginia A. (Devlin) Grammer and the late Edmund Dexter Grammer. Loving brother to Christopher J. Grammer and his wife Maryanne of West Roxbury, Dr. Elaine M. Grammer-Pacicco and her husband Dr. Thomas J. Pacicco of North Carolina, Paul F. Grammer, Robert J. Grammer and the late Marilyn V. Grammer of Roslindale. He is also survived by several nieces, nephews, cousins, and lifelong friends.
Growing up as the oldest of six children, Eddie naturally stepped into a leadership role early in life. His family could always count on him to consistently step up and give a helping hand whenever needed. Even with the heavy responsibility of being the eldest, Eddie maintained calm confidence through every challenge and maintained an easy-going approach to life.
A proud alumnus of the Boston Latin School, Boston University School of Fine Arts, and Lesley University, Eddie dedicated his life to sharing the gift of music. Eddie poured his heart into teaching for 35 years to countless students across Massachusetts Public Schools. His first teaching assignment, happily, was in his father’s hometown, Woburn! He also spent 26 of those years as the High School and Middle School Band Director for the Town of Stoneham. His love for guiding young musicians also extended to higher education, where he spent over a decade inspiring college students as the Jazz Band Director at Bentley University.
Eddie’s love for music went far beyond the classroom. His musical journey began as a Trumpeter in the St. Thomas Aquinas’ Bands of Jamaica Plain, MA. Starting at the age of 13, he played in his first rock band, “Spur”. Over the course of his life, he brought a lot of joy to audiences all over the Boston area. With great joy and pride, he shared his talents as a musical arranger, singer, multi-instrumentalist, and self-taught guitarist with several local Irish, pop, and rock bands, and loved playing solo gigs. Music truly never stopped for Eddie, who was always ready to sing a silly tune and bring a smile to anyone nearby. He was an exceedingly incredible musical talent!
He is survived by his children, Elizabeth D. Grammer and her husband Ian Howe of New York, Kevin E. Grammer and his wife Jillian Piccione of New York, and their mother Cynthia P. Grammer. He is also survived by his step-children Patricia A. Waldron and her husband William of Middleton, Shannon T. Lynch and her partner Andrew of Woburn, Siobhan E. Sylvain and her husband Zachary of Florida, Devin L. Coss and her husband Daniel of Winchester, Fallon M. Tuminelli and her husband Joseph of Woburn, Bridget E. Lynch and her partner Edward of Waltham, Seadna C. Lynch and her partner Alexander of Waltham, and Sinead A. Lynch of Woburn.
Of all the titles he held, ‘Grandpa' was his absolute favorite. Eddie is also survived by his 11 grandchildren, Leonardo Piccione Grammer and Andreas Piccione Grammer; and also, Melanie and Sabrina Waldron; Leonardo Sgroi, Madailein, Aidan, Ellen, and Carolyn Sylvain; and Emma and Anthony Tuminelli. His grandchildren were the absolute center of his world; he was the happiest when spending time with them. Eddie was fun, playful, and dedicated endless time to being deeply involved with his grandchildren. They adored him, constantly asked for him, and rushed straight to his side with open arms. He carried his love for them wherever he went, frequently bragging about their achievements and eagerly showing off pictures to anyone who would look.
When he wasn’t making music, Eddie found peace and happiness in the simple beauties of everyday life. He was an avid gardener, a passionate soccer player, a quiet bird watcher, and a devoted animal lover who cherished his pets.
Funeral services were held at the Edward V. Sullivan Funeral Home and St. Margaret’s Church in Burlington, MA. Burial site is Woodbrook Cemetery in Woburn, MA. Please visit guestbook at: sullivanfuneralhome.net
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